During this time I fell in love with myself and Africa at an enrichment program known as the Yale Young African Scholars Program. I was lucky enough to embark on this adventure with my older sister and 148 other brilliant African teenagers. The experience was life changing, and it opened my eyes to so many different things.
Every single morning, I woke up with a smile on my face. I walked around the campus with a delighted spring in my step. The entire program was very intense, and I had never done anything like it before. Not even close to it. Of course, there was reasonable sleep time, but during the day, there were back-to-back activities that demanded 110 percent energy. From the SAT lectures, which I expected to be boring but were rather involving and fun, to the seminars which were quite frankly mind blowing—everything was spectacular.
Dzifianu with her sister at YYAS 2018 in Ghana. |
By the end of the seminar the three boys had become feminists: they began to better understand the challenges that many women face in the world. Through constructive dialogue, debate, and discussion, together we were able to share viewpoints and tackle larger issues such as misconceptions and stereotypes about women.
But we also talked about was stereotypes against boys, which I didn’t know we would examine but I’m glad we did. For example, the question, “why aren’t boys allowed to cry?” was asked. As a class, we delved deeper into the subject and realized that there are several double standards in our societies that are set up against not just girls, but boys as well. Obviously, we didn’t find a way to end gender inequality, but we were able to talk about concrete steps to end this disparity and I believe the world is a little bit better because, out of that one seminar emerged twelve young adults with the agreed mindset that both genders are equal, and who are now advocates for what they believe in. This seminar was so inspiring in fact, that we made a poster. Several of them actually!
I also thoroughly enjoyed the YYAS lectures. As someone who likes to speak a lot, I loved the structured times for debate and hearing others’ points of views. After each YYAS lecture, we would break up into groups of about fifteen and talk about what he had just heard during Discussion Group Sessions.
And it wasn’t just me—I’m sure everyone else at YYAS can testify to that. Even the instructors and lecturers. We learnt from them, and they learnt from us. More than just learning from each other, though, we inspired each other. We all reached a point where we were totally in love with Africa because the youth of Africa are so brilliant and affable, and we totally loved ourselves, because we realized there is nothing we can’t do once we set our mind to something.
I have always known I can do anything I set my mind to, for as long as I can remember. This notion comes from my Christian faith and my life experiences (believe it or not, you can see a whole lot in fifteen years!). YYAS was a special experience, and I call the ten days I spent there the best days of my life so far because more than ever, I not only learned—I became inspired.
It was basically ten days of hearing this message: “You can, and you will. If not you, who? If not now, when?” And the message hit home. I always knew I could, but the lively, involved, and bright instructors at YYAS, the entire team, and all the other young African scholars, made sure I WOULD. And it means so much to me, because they accepted me, and taught me, and listened to what I had to say, even though I was one of the youngest people there. I came out of YYAS 2018 full of many ideas that I am putting into projects. I am not just a dreamer, I’m a doer. And I have YYAS to thank for helping me discover that love.